I always thought it was cruel to put blinders on horses, but
now I’m having second thoughts. Maintaining a singular focus or what I like to
call the F Factor seems impossible
for many of us without the benefit of blinders to keep our eyes from straying
to the distractions around us. For a person like me, distractions are a
particular problem in the pursuit of my goals.
Tennis phenomenon Venus Williams is known for her focus and
determination. Throughout her career, this two-time Olympic gold medalist has
encountered many hurdles and criticisms, but she’s refused to let these distract
her from tennis excellence.
I want the focus and tenacity of Venus Williams. Instead of
being worried or distracted by the obstacles in my way, I want to keep my eyes
on the goal line for my life. Instead of zigging and zagging through life, I
want to take the straightest line to the end zone. I don’t want to let anything
or anyone stop me in my mission.
As Americans, we live in a very distracting society. We have
responsibilities that are often bewildering and draining: family, job,
finances, health, church and friends all compete for our time and attention. If
we do not have our eyes fixed steadfastly on the goal line, there will always
be people who have agendas for our lives.
A question must be asked when people ask us to participate
in a certain task: Would this activity lead me in the direction of the goal
line for my life? As German writer and artist Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
reminds us, “Things that matter most must never be at the mercy of things that
matter least.”
The next time you see a horse with blinders on, remember
this: Blinders are your friend and not
your enemy. By eliminating distractions,
you will be amazed at how much clearer the goal will appear.
What about you?
List some of the ways putting on blinders can increase a
singular focus or The F factor in
your life?